mypatronusisyou:

I’m suspicious that the only reason Blake is gone from the show is because Ryan Murphy found out people ship Jyder and was like NO!! YOU’rE OnLy suppsoED TO SHIP THOSE TWO wiTH marRLEY!!! MArLEY!!!!! MARLEY!!!!!! U SHIp JAKE ANd RydER …… with??OUT mARLEY???????? BUT u MUST WaNT MARLEY. MARLEY.

I’d probably only hate Marley like 50% as much if she wasn’t shoved down our throats.

blame-blam:

haha isn’t it so FUNNY that the klainers thought they’d get 1. engegament 2.marriage 3.at least some interaction and in the end they got nothing and BLAM we got the best scenes ever, a bram break up and Sam saying he loves Blaine and in the same scene insisting that he wants to do him

blame-blam:

woah it feels like the beginning of an ff don’t it? Sam not wanting Blaine to marry Kurt and being all defensive about the crush (as in reminding him of it when he’s in the process of looking for a ring) and at the same time Bram breaking up without too much drama

the next step would be Sam realising his feelings

omg can’t wait for S5

Blaine confides in Sam his feelings about Kurt breaking up with him and who he cheated with and how he felt about the cheating afterward

(He never says these things to Kurt)

Sam listens to Blaine’s feelings and offers comfort

(In Kurt’s Skype convo with Blaine he ignored Blaine and cut him off when he tried to talk about things in his life that were important to him)

When Sam is feeling upset and down on himself Blaine notices and puts a lot of work into tracking down people who know Sam and makes a video of people telling Sam all the things that are great about him

(Blaine can’t even be bothered to do anything for Kurt on Valentine’s day, nor can Kurt be bothered to do anything for him)

Blaine notices Sam, he sees him stealing macaroni, this causes him to worry about Sam, and he knows about Sam’s poverty so he tries to give him money in order to help

(Kurt doesn’t notice when Blaine is feeling insecure about their relationship, instead he turns to Chandler for attention and ignores Blaine to flirt with Chandler over text)

When Blaine develops feelings for Sam and starts to feel awkward about it, Sam notices and realizes what’s going on without Blaine having to say it and opens a dialogue and Blaine honestly admits what he’s been feeling and they talk it out and come to an understanding

(Every time there are problems in the Klaine relationship, neither of them understand what’s going on and then one of them turns to another guy for attention instead of talking about things with each other)

Blaine and Sam make a great team, they work well together and collaborate on plots to help the Glee club

(Kurt and Blaine compete with each other, trying to take each other’s spotlight and roles)

When Sam tells Blaine he’s not interested, Blaine accepts it and backs off, but stays close friends with him

(When Kurt tells Blaine he’s not interested, Blaine doesn’t care and continues to pressure him)

Blaine tells Sam he wants to propose to Kurt

(before he tells Kurt)

Sam gives him good advice about the proposal, when Blaine doesn’t listen he decides to support him anyways

(Kurt doesn’t even think Blaine deserves to make his own decision on whether to prosecute the guy who put him in the hospital, and makes the decision for him without telling him)

Blaine is the one person Sam opens up to about his passion and talent for art

(He never tells Britt)

Blaine is the first person Sam tells about his love of Barry Manilow

(not Britt)

Blaine and Sam truly KNOW each other, CONFIDE in each other, are HONEST with each other, CARE for each other, and HELP each other.

There’s a REASON why Blaine sang to Sam, “You’re the only one who really knew me at all” and looked STRAIGHT AT HIM when he sang that line.

They are BEST FRIENDS.

Just like Santana and Brittany are BEST FRIENDS.

Kurt and Blaine are not even really friends.

Blaine says pretty words to Kurt and that’s the extent of their relationship. Blaine can say words about “love” and “soulmates” but they never SHOW that they love each other. They don’t even KNOW each other. They don’t even really TALK. They have no true emotional intimacy.

In stark contrast to Blam.

So HOW is Blam not the BEST relationship on the show (aside from Brittana)?

SO OK I feel like I should clarify this. A while ago I posted about how Sam lost his virginity as an underage stripper and so maybe he was molested himself and that’s why he dismissed Ryder, because Sam feels like he has to think this kind of thing is OK in order to protect himself and tell himself that nothing bad happened to him. And I think it came off like I was just saying it was molestation because he was underage? But that’s not what I meant at all. Sam was an underage survivalist sex worker. As in, he was not a sex worker by his own free choice, but a sex worker by necessity because he needed to do it in order to feed his family. And considering his severe body issues I doubt this is a profession he was comfortable with at all. His sex work itself was overall non-consensual since he HAD to do it in order to ensure the survival of himself and his family, and then he lost his virginity IN that situation, while he was doing (essentially) non-consensual sex work, and the fact that he was underage is just more reason why he wasn’t really competent to make that decision at all.